WHAT TO WEAR IN YOUR DATING PROFILE PICTURES
By Ned P. Supan
In the world of dating apps, your profile picture does most of the talking before you even get a chance to say hello. Whether you’re on Tinder, Bumble or Hinge, what you wear in that photo can play a big part in whether someone stops to learn more—or keeps swiping.
The goal isn’t to dress up as someone you’re not. The best dating profile photos feel like you, just on a good day. What you wear should reflect your personality, your lifestyle and how you actually like to present yourself.
Keep it authentic
Authenticity matters. Don’t wear something just because you think it looks trendy or impressive—choose clothes you’d actually wear on a date. If you never wear suits, don’t put one on for a photo. If you live in jeans and T-shirts, go for your best version of that. You want someone to recognise you in the picture, not a styled-up version that won’t hold up in person.
Keep it simple
Outfits that are clean, well-fitting and uncomplicated tend to photograph best. Stick to solid colours or subtle patterns—busy prints can distract and pull focus away from your face. Adding texture with a layer or two, like a jacket, overshirt or scarf, can help your outfit feel a bit more put together.
Add a pop of colour
While neutrals are safe, a splash of bright colour—especially red—can make a big difference in a photo. Red in particular tends to stand out and can come across as confident and bold, even if it’s just a small accent like a T-shirt, accessory or detail.
Comfort shows
If your clothes don’t feel right, it’ll show in the photo. You want to look relaxed and confident, not stiff or self-conscious. Choose clothes that feel comfortable and natural to wear—nothing too tight, itchy, or awkward.
Keep accessories minimal
Small accessories can add character—a watch, a necklace, maybe some sunglasses if the setting works—but don’t let them take over the shot. The focus should stay on you.
Plan ahead
If you’re booking a shoot with a dating photographer, or just getting a friend to take some pictures, it’s a good idea to bring two or three outfit options. This gives you some variety and helps you figure out what looks best on camera.
What you wear in your dating profile pictures won’t make or break your chances—but it can definitely help you come across as confident, approachable and true to yourself. And that’s what people are really looking for.
A great outfit helps—but natural, well-shot photos are what really make your profile stand out. If you’re ready to take it up a level, consider booking a shoot with a dating photographer. It’s the best way to get confident, authentic photos that actually feel like you.
At Snapped Up, we specialise in capturing natural, authentic photos that make your profile stand out. A great outfit helps—but well-shot images are what really make a difference. If you’re ready to take it up a level, consider booking a shoot with us. It’s the best way to get confident photos that truly feel like you.